Swedish death cleaning: clutter and stress

The short version

  • Swedish death cleaning (döstädning) means sorting your belongings while you are able, so the people who come after you are not left to do it. Margareta Magnusson's book frames it as a practical kindness, told with dry humor.

  • "Does it spark joy?" is Marie Kondo's test, not Magnusson's. Magnusson asks who will want an item, and whether anyone should have to deal with it.

  • Research links how people experience clutter at home with stress and wellbeing, but the evidence is thin: mostly small or cross-sectional studies, mostly of women, and no trials showing that decluttering lowers stress.

  • For coaches, death cleaning is less about tidiness than about values, legacy, and life transitions such as a move, aging, or caring for a parent.

What Magnusson actually wrote

Döstädning combines the Swedish words for death (dö) and cleaning (städning). In The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning (Magnusson, 2018), the author, who describes herself as somewhere between 80 and 100, makes the case for doing this work sooner rather than later so family members don't have to do it for you (Powell's Books, n.d.).

An Associated Press review of the book describes it as a tradition usually taken up by people 65 and older, aimed at both older adults and their younger relatives (Salt Lake Tribune, 2017). The practical advice it reports includes:

  • Start with storage areas such as the basement, attic, and closets.

  • Tell family and friends what you are doing, and invite them to take things.

  • Sort by category, starting with the least sentimental items, such as clothes, and leave photographs and letters for last.

  • Find new homes for things so they can be useful to someone else.

The older version of this article told readers to ask whether each item "brings you joy." That is Marie Kondo's approach. Kondo's The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up teaches readers to keep the items that "spark joy" (Penguin Random House, n.d.). The AP review draws the contrast directly: Kondo keeps what sparks joy for you, while Magnusson finds new homes for things so they can bring joy to someone else (Salt Lake Tribune, 2017). The difference matters in coaching. Magnusson's question points outward, toward relationships and responsibility.

What the research on clutter and stress shows

The research is limited.

Clutter, cortisol, and mood. Saxbe and Repetti (2010) recorded 60 dual-income spouses giving self-guided tours of their homes and analyzed the words they used. Wives who described their homes with more words about clutter and unfinished projects had flatter daily cortisol slopes, a pattern linked to poorer health, and their depressed mood rose over the day. Wives who used more restful and nature words showed the opposite pattern. The results held after accounting for marital satisfaction and neuroticism. It measured how women talked about their homes, not how much they owned.

Clutter and wellbeing. Rogers and Hart (2021) surveyed 1,111 adults, mostly women. Subjective clutter (how cluttered people felt their home was) and their sense of home as a place that supports them accounted for a substantial share of differences in wellbeing. The authors note that self-help claims about decluttering have received little scientific attention, and they propose defining clutter by how a person experiences it. The study was cross-sectional, so it shows links, not cause.

Age changes the picture. Swanson and Ferrari (2022) compared 225 adults 65 and older with 225 younger adults. Age changed the link between clutter and people's sense of home: clutter appeared to weigh less on older adults' sense of home. Older adults also reported higher wellbeing overall.

Downsizing later in life. Ekerdt and colleagues (2004) interviewed members of 30 households who had moved to smaller homes. Sorting typically took about 2 months and had practical, mental, emotional, and social sides. People took pleasure in seeing their things go to someone who would use and value them, which echoes Magnusson's approach.

Taken together: how a person experiences their home is linked to stress and wellbeing, and a later-life move is emotional as well as practical. No study shows that death cleaning, or decluttering in general, lowers stress.

Using it with clients

Clients rarely come to coaching to declutter. The topic tends to surface around a move, retirement, a death in the family, a health change, or caring for an aging parent. Let the client decide whether it is a goal at all.

  • Start with meaning. Explore what the client hopes will be different, and what they want their belongings to say or do for the people they love.

  • Make it small and specific. One closet or one category is a better first step than "the house." Magnusson's order, least sentimental first, gives clients an easy start.

  • Plan the conversations. Talking with family about what goes where can be harder than the sorting. Help the client plan who to talk to and what they want to say.

  • Respect autonomy in caregiving. When an adult child is sorting a parent's home, the belongings and decisions belong to the parent. Coach the caregiver on their own part.

  • Make room for grief. Sorting a late partner's or parent's things can bring grief to the surface. Slow down and reflect.

Example lines: - "What would feel different at home if this were done?" - "Which space feels easiest to start with, and which feels heaviest?" - "Who in your life would you like to have some of these things?" - "Would it be helpful if I shared the order the author of that book suggests?"

Where coaching stops

Hoarding disorder is a mental health condition, not a clutter problem, and only a licensed mental health professional can diagnose it. Signs include great difficulty letting go of possessions, clutter that keeps rooms from being used for their purpose, and distress or unsafe conditions (International OCD Foundation [IOCDF], 2025). Refer those clients to a mental health professional who specializes in hoarding, and involve community services if there are safety hazards. Also refer when grief is overwhelming or lasting (mental health professional), when an older client shows signs of memory or thinking changes (physician), and when questions involve wills or estates (attorney or financial professional).

Go deeper

The Sleep, Stress, and Movement package, which covers stress and the home environment, is in development.

References

Ekerdt, D. J., Sergeant, J. F., Dingel, M., & Bowen, M. E. (2004). Household disbandment in later life. The Journals of Gerontology, Series B: Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences, 59(5), S265–S273. https://doi.org/10.1093/geronb/59.5.S265

International OCD Foundation. (2025, July). What is hoarding disorder? [Brochure]. https://iocdf.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/What-is-Hoarding-Disorder-Brochure-July-2025.pdf

Magnusson, M. (2018). The gentle art of Swedish death cleaning: How to free yourself and your family from a lifetime of clutter. Scribner. ISBN 9781501173240.

Penguin Random House. (n.d.). The life-changing magic of tidying up by Marie Kondo [Book description]. Retrieved November 1, 2026, from https://penguinrandomhouse.com/books/isbn/9781607747307

Powell's Books. (n.d.). The gentle art of Swedish death cleaning [Book description]. Retrieved November 1, 2026, from https://www.powells.com/book/the-gentle-art-of-swedish-death-cleaning-9781501173240

Rogers, C. J., & Hart, R. (2021). Home and the extended-self: Exploring associations between clutter and wellbeing. Journal of Environmental Psychology, 73, 101553. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jenvp.2021.101553

Salt Lake Tribune. (2017, December 1). From Sweden, an unsentimental take on de-cluttering with "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning" [Associated Press review]. https://www.sltrib.com/artsliving/arts/2017/12/01/from-sweden-an-unsentimental-take-on-de-cluttering-with-the-gentle-art-of-swedish-death-cleaning/

Saxbe, D. E., & Repetti, R. (2010). No place like home: Home tours correlate with daily patterns of mood and cortisol. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 36(1), 71–81. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167209352864

Swanson, H. L., & Ferrari, J. R. (2022). Older adults and clutter: Age differences in clutter impact, psychological home, and subjective well-being. Behavioral Sciences, 12(5), 132. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs12050132

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